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Vi\u00f0 \u00e6tlum a\u00f0 sko\u00f0a hva\u00f0a gildi lofor\u00f0 hefur og \u00fear af lei\u00f0andi hva\u00f0a aflei\u00f0ingar \u00fea\u00f0 hefur a\u00f0 standa ekki vi\u00f0 lofor\u00f0. Hver og einn getur svo hugsa\u00f0 \u00fat fr\u00e1 eigin forsendum hven\u00e6r einhverju hefur veri\u00f0 lofa\u00f0 og hven\u00e6r eitthva\u00f0 hefur veri\u00f0 sviki\u00f0.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 eru nokkur grundvallaratri\u00f0i sem \u00fearf a\u00f0 hafa \u00ed huga \u00feegar lofor\u00f0 eru metin. Hver sem er getur au\u00f0vita\u00f0 lofa\u00f0 hverju sem er, oft \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hafi einhverjar s\u00e9rstakar aflei\u00f0ingar og \u00fear liggur hundurinn grafinn \u2013 \u00e6tlast er til \u00feess a\u00f0 sumir standi vi\u00f0 lofor\u00f0 s\u00edn en a\u00f0rir ekki.<\/p>\n
Sko\u00f0um m\u00e1li\u00f0 a\u00f0eins n\u00e1nar. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fearf a\u00f0 uppfylla \u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 minnsta fimm sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0 atri\u00f0i til a\u00f0 geta lofa\u00f0 einhverju. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fearf bo\u00f0anda lofor\u00f0sins, \u00fea\u00f0 er a\u00f0 segja \u00fea\u00f0 getur enginn lofa\u00f0 einhverju fyrir annars h\u00f6nd. \u00de\u00e1 \u00fearf einhvern til a\u00f0 taka vi\u00f0 lofor\u00f0inu, einhvern sem lofor\u00f0i\u00f0 er beint til. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fearf ennfremur a\u00f0 vera gagnkv\u00e6mur skilningur \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed hvernig lofor\u00f0i\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur uppfyllt. Lofor\u00f0i\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur einnig a\u00f0 fela \u00ed s\u00e9r eitthva\u00f0 sem \u00e1 a\u00f0 gerast \u00ed framt\u00ed\u00f0inni. Fimmti og s\u00ed\u00f0asti li\u00f0urinn er svo hven\u00e6r lofor\u00f0i\u00f0 er komi\u00f0 \u00e1 t\u00edma.<\/p>\n
En eins og \u00e1\u00f0ur kom fram \u00fe\u00e1 \u00fearf einnig a\u00f0 sko\u00f0a af hverju sumum er \u00e6tla\u00f0 a\u00f0 standa vi\u00f0 lofor\u00f0 en \u00f6\u00f0rum ekki. \u00dear koma til s\u00f6gunnar nokkrir \u00fe\u00e6ttir sem segja til um hvort lofor\u00f0i\u00f0 er \u00e1rei\u00f0anlegt e\u00f0a ekki.<\/p>\n
Fyrst skal sko\u00f0a hvort s\u00e1 sem lofor\u00f0i\u00f0 gefur er \u00ed st\u00f6\u00f0u til efna lofor\u00f0i\u00f0 annarsvegar og hinsvegar hvort vi\u00f0komandi s\u00e9 h\u00e6fur til \u00feess a\u00f0 lofa, til d\u00e6mis ekki kr\u00f3n\u00edskur lygari. \u00de\u00e1 \u00feurfa b\u00e6\u00f0i s\u00e1 sem gefur lofor\u00f0 og s\u00e1 sem er m\u00f3ttakandi \u00feess a\u00f0 gera s\u00e9r grein fyrir \u00fev\u00ed hvort lofor\u00f0sgefandinn geri s\u00e9r grein fyrir t\u00edmarammanum til a\u00f0 efna lofor\u00f0i\u00f0. \u00de\u00e1 \u00fearf s\u00e1 sem lofar a\u00f0 hafa s\u00fdnt fram \u00e1 a\u00f0 honum s\u00e9 alvara, me\u00f0 yfirl\u00fdsingu, me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 taka fr\u00e1 t\u00edma e\u00f0a einhver bjargr\u00e1\u00f0 til a\u00f0 uppfylla lofor\u00f0i\u00f0. Ennfremur \u00fearf a\u00f0 vera lj\u00f3st a\u00f0 lofor\u00f0i\u00f0 s\u00e9 gefi\u00f0 af frj\u00e1lsum hug og af einl\u00e6gni. Loks \u00fearf s\u00e1 sem gefur lofor\u00f0 a\u00f0 gera s\u00e9r fulla grein fyrir, og taka \u00e1byrg\u00f0 \u00e1, \u00feeim aflei\u00f0ingum sem \u00fea\u00f0 hefur a\u00f0 standa ekki vi\u00f0 lofor\u00f0i\u00f0.<\/p>\n
Me\u00f0 \u00feessum lei\u00f0beiningum sem vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum h\u00e9r a\u00f0 ofan er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 taka hvers kyns m\u00e1lefni til sko\u00f0unar og velta \u00fev\u00ed fyrir s\u00e9r hvort \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a hafi veri\u00f0 til a\u00f0 taka mark \u00e1 gefnu lofor\u00f0i og ef svo var, hva\u00f0 raunverulega f\u00f3r \u00farskei\u00f0is.<\/p>\n
\u00deegar lofor\u00f0 er gefi\u00f0 er stundum tala\u00f0 um a\u00f0 s\u00e1ttm\u00e1li hafi komist \u00e1. Lofor\u00f0 eru oftast ekki gefin \u00fat \u00ed lofti\u00f0. \u00deau eru gefin vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 krafa er h\u00f6f\u00f0 uppi, og s\u00e1 sem gefur lofor\u00f0i\u00f0 s\u00e9r hagsmunum s\u00ednum best borgi\u00f0 \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gefa lofor\u00f0i\u00f0 \u2013 og stundum efna \u00fea\u00f0.<\/p>\n
Hver einasti einstaklingur skapar s\u00e9r \u00e1kve\u00f0i\u00f0 or\u00f0spor sem byggist \u00e1 \u00feeim eiginleikum sem einstaklingurinn b\u00fdr yfir. \u00cd stuttu m\u00e1li \u00fe\u00e1 ver\u00f0ur skynheild allra \u00feessara eiginleika \u00fea\u00f0 sem m\u00f3ttakendur sj\u00e1 og skapar or\u00f0spori\u00f0. Or\u00f0spori\u00f0 er grundv\u00f6llur s\u00e1ttm\u00e1lans. Ef s\u00e1ttm\u00e1linn heldur ekki \u00fe\u00e1 mun or\u00f0spor \u00feess sem lofa\u00f0i einfaldlega breytast til hins verra. Ef \u00fea\u00f0 gerist ekki \u00fe\u00e1 er \u00fea\u00f0 sk\u00fdr v\u00edsbending um a\u00f0 tr\u00faver\u00f0ugleiki \u00feess sem lofa\u00f0i einhverju hafi einfaldlega ekki veri\u00f0 mikill og \u00fev\u00ed ekki mark takandi \u00e1 lofor\u00f0inu.<\/p>\n
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Miki\u00f0 er rifist og \u00ferasa\u00f0 um lofor\u00f0 \u00feessa dagana. Vi\u00f0 \u00e6tlum ekki a\u00f0 hlutast til um \u00fea\u00f0 hver lofa\u00f0i hverju og hva\u00f0 var sviki\u00f0. Vi\u00f0 \u00e6tlum hinsvegar a\u00f0 skrifa greinarkorn um lofor\u00f0, hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 raunverulega er.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[14],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/101"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=101"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/101\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=101"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=101"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=101"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}