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Samskipti \u00e1 \u00feessu svi\u00f0i ver\u00f0a a\u00f0 vera formleg vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00f3formleg samskipti eru \u00e1n auglj\u00f3sra markmi\u00f0a. Formlegt samtal er vir\u00f0ingin \u00ed framkv\u00e6md – skiptir ekki m\u00e1li hvort a\u00f0ilar s\u00e9u efnislega samm\u00e1la e\u00f0a ekki.<\/p>\n
Me\u00f0 formlegum h\u00e6tti er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 skapa grundv\u00f6ll fyrir eftirtekt. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekki h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 taka almennilega eftir ef markmi\u00f0 eru \u00f3lj\u00f3s og \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 au\u00f0vita\u00f0 vi\u00f0 um samskipti. \u00dea\u00f0 m\u00e6tti segja a\u00f0 af \u00feessum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um s\u00e9u \u00f3lj\u00f3s markmi\u00f0 b\u00e6\u00f0i peninga- og t\u00edmas\u00f3un \u00ed vi\u00f0skiptum.<\/p>\n
Taktu eftir. Formlegt samtal: Margar v\u00edsbendingar eru a\u00f0 finna um \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 formi\u00f0 \u201esamtal\u201c vi\u00f0 fleiri en einn samt\u00edmis s\u00e9 n\u00e1nast \u00f3m\u00f6gulegt form.<\/p>\n
\u00deetta er einfalt d\u00e6mi a\u00f0 skilja: Ef einhver sannindi eru a\u00f0 finna \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e1rangur \u00ed samskiptum felist m.a. \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hlusta og skilja \u00fe.e. felist \u00ed skilningi \u00e1 st\u00f6\u00f0u, vandam\u00e1lum, \u00fe\u00f6rfum og \u00f3skum vi\u00f0m\u00e6landa manns (fyrir utan skilning (inns\u00e6i\u00f0) \u00e1 \u00f3lj\u00f3sum pers\u00f3nulegum tilvistarmarkmi\u00f0um vi\u00f0m\u00e6landans) \u00fe\u00e1 m\u00e1 me\u00f0 sanni segja a\u00f0 ma\u00f0urinn hafi \u00ed fleira en m\u00f6rgu a\u00f0 sn\u00faast \u00fe\u00e1 stund samtali\u00f0 \u00e1 s\u00e9r sta\u00f0. \u00deetta eitt eykur h\u00e6ttu \u00e1 a\u00f0 eitthva\u00f0 fari fyrir ofan og ne\u00f0an gar\u00f0 hj\u00e1 manni \u00ed samtali s\u00ednu vi\u00f0 einn vi\u00f0m\u00e6landa: st\u00f3r h\u00e6tta er \u00e1 a\u00f0 mis-skilningur eigi s\u00e9r sta\u00f0. Hva\u00f0 m\u00e1 \u00e6tla a\u00f0 gerist ef vi\u00f0m\u00e6lendur manns eru fleiri en einn samt\u00edmis?<\/p>\n
\u00cd raun m\u00e1 ganga \u00fat fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 samtal vi\u00f0 fleiri en einn samt\u00edmis s\u00e9 \u00f3r\u00f6kr\u00e9tt og \u00f3\u00fearft samtal.<\/p>\n
Formlegt samtal er afar erfi\u00f0 stund s\u00e9u fleiri en einn um a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a! Krefst margra \u00e1ra \u00fej\u00e1lfunar og ekki lj\u00f3st hvernig eigi a\u00f0 bera sig a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 sl\u00edkar a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur. Helst m\u00e1 leita \u00ed smi\u00f0jur \u00feekktra fyrirlesara sem hafa rannsaka\u00f0 \u00e1 kerfisbundin h\u00e1tt hva\u00f0 liggi a\u00f0 baki \u00e1rangri vi\u00f0 sl\u00edkar a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur. Sta\u00f0h\u00e6fa m\u00e1 a\u00f0 g\u00e6\u00f0i samtals vi\u00f0 fleiri en einn samt\u00edmis s\u00e9 ekki fyrir hendi, semsagt notagildi samtalsins ver\u00f0ur ekki miki\u00f0, jafnvel ekki neitt og allar l\u00edkur eru \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sn\u00faist upp \u00ed andst\u00f6\u00f0u s\u00edna \u00fe.e. sta\u00f0an eftir samtal ver\u00f0i mun verri en fyrir samtali\u00f0.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Vi\u00f0skipti sn\u00faast um \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 skiptast \u00e1 einhverju, vi\u00f0 einhvern. Vi\u00f0 skiptumst \u00e1 v\u00f6ru og pening til d\u00e6mis. Tilgangur vi\u00f0skiptanna er a\u00f0 uppfylla markmi\u00f0 \u00feeirra sem skiptast \u00e1.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[14],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/workspace.cohnwolfe.is\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}